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Be ready

JACKIE1-25-15
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Okay, so you have been smoke-free for a while and you’re feeling rather confident that you’ve got it.  Well, don’t be fooled, staying quit requires keeping your quit tools sharpened and ready to use.  You have to protect your quit because our addictive brain (the trickster) may try to regain control.   Why? Because it has been controlling for years and doesn’t like not being the boss, so be ready. Don't be tricked by the trickster. 

 Be ready, use the tool Self-talk.   Don’t be blindsided by letting the trickster "out talk" you.  Tell your addictive brain to “shut up!”   Let the trickster know that it is wasting it’s time because no matter what you are not going to smoke.  Say it like you mean it.  “I don’t do that anymore”!   “I am not going to be fooled,  so trickster, move on”!  It will get to steppin’. 

 Be ready when the argument with a loved one occurs and  leaves you totally exasperated. Don’t smoke!    Find a quiet place and breath.

 Be ready when loneliness, boredom, tiredness, depression, sickness, death or a family event occurs. Don’t let the trickster make you think you have to smoke.  You don’t! Get your hands Busy /Change your location.  

Be ready when the trickster says “oh just one”.  Don’t be fooled pull out your quit tools.  It is a test.  Pass it. You will become stronger each time.   Don’t take the easy way out.  Wait it out and let it go.  SINAO.  Smoking is not an option.   

Believe in yourself.  Know that you can do this.  Make up your mind that nothing and no one is going to get in your way.  Think outside of the box, your quit depends on it.  Kick the trickster to the curb by any means necessary.   N.O.P.E (not one puff ever) NO MATTER WHAT!  

Enjoy the holiday weekend but protect your quit.  

Keep it Simple…. If you drink alcohol and have to smoke, don’t drink.  If you are around smokers and have to smoke, don’t be around smokers. 

19 Comments
cpsono
Member

Great blog, Jackie...Thank you and have a nice weekend!   CP 1year, 1day smoke free!

hunniebear03
Member

Great blog a lot of great tips to staying smoke free!! Enjoy your weekend 

Daniela2016
Member

Thanks Jackie for the good reminders!

Have a great weekend!

Daniela

elvan
Member

Miss Jackie,

Great reminders no matter WHERE you are in your quit!

ShawnP
Member

Great blog Jackie! I sure hope they all read this and listen. Nothing is worth losing your quit over.

KMC56
Member

Awesome blog..thank you!

froguelady
Member

Great blog and advice. We must never let our guard down. Have a good and safe Memorial Day weekend.

prjimm01
Member

Great blog - thanks!

bonniebee
Member

CFantastic blog as usual Jackie ! Great advice for the new and the old we must always remain vigilent becuse Ole Nic is trickey ! I never ever want to go back to day 1 !

NEF SINAO NOPE !!!!!!!!!

          God bless you Jackie !

shashort
Member

Thanks Jackie. Great blog!!!  Definitely putting my gaurd up.  NOPE!!! SINAO!!!

MarilynH
Member

An absolutely EXcellent EXtremely EXceptional blog from a friend and fellow Exer. ☺

Strudel
Member

Amen - great blog! 

Storm.3.1.14
Member

Jackie, I love it when you spread the truth! You know the deal!

TerrieQuit
Member

Great blog Jackie, Thanks!

I Won't Quit on my Quit!

redpepper
Member

Hey Tricky Monster, back off! 

BACK OFF! 

That's what I'm sayin':       B-A-C-K     O-F-F        !!!!!!!!!!!

I am stronger than cigarettes. 

Thank you for this blog! Thank you! 

elvan
Member

redpepper‌ this is an older post but definitely a good one.

redpepper
Member

I know. I have no idea how I keep hooking in to this old stuff. It finds me. Ha! I'm just reading anything and everything. 

Thanks, Elvan. Good to "see" you at this late hour. 

elvan
Member

I have done it more than once...it brings the post back for others so you actually just did THEM a favor. Keep reading, that is really good!

Ellen

JACKIE1-25-15
Member

redpepper  You hook up because I use them as highlights in my comments. The old blogs and comments might help with the issue.  Saves me having to remember and type a lot. lol 

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Lay aside every weight that may be slowing you down. Make up your mind not to allow doubt cause you to stumble. You can do this! Do not allow fear , False Expectations Appearing Real to hold you down. You can do this! Break the chains of addiction, forgive yourself for ever smoking. move forward and start loving yourself more each day by staying smokefree. Put aside worry, anxiety, depression, any EXcuse that you would use to not get in or stay in the race of freedom. Take one day at a time, one step if necessary. Run the race diligently, steady and sure with endurance. Believe that you can. Keep your eye on the prize. Hang tough, stay close, be mindful, never give in, never give up.