yaya...thanks so much for letting me know this. I really do know it is the right thing to do. My husband has confirmed this as well. So have a few friends but they have never gone through/done what I am doing so it is hard for them to say it IS the right thing to do... I really appreciate your input...really. Thank you!
This has to be a good thing. My anxiety is SO much better. I almost feel weird not having it as severe as it was but at the same time...because I DO feel so much better, I keep thinking that this will end & I will go back to feeling terrible again. That is still my anxiety...hopefully I will get over that as well.
But to keep up with the 20something bashing....I took a trip a few months ago to see my Dad in Arkansas. On my way home, I met a young man, leaving for Afghanistan. He said he was very nervous & scared & it really tugged at those heart strings to know this young guy was risking his life for us. SO, I told him if he gave me his contact info I would send a package of stuff when he got settled; so he sent me a list of things he & his buddy could use.
Well, to make a very long story really short, I couldn't send the dirty magazines..he copped an attitude and didn't even let me know he received the $100+ worth of stuff I had sent!! I HAD to contact him to see if he ever got the package & he said "oh yeah...I forgot to thank you..we liked everything expect the peanuts!!!!!!" The nerve of this little twit!! I am telling you the ungrateful little turd! Well, I won't send him anything anymore...my friend has a nephew that just left so I will send him stuff instead!! I am sure he will appreciate whatever I send. Am I wrong for feeling like crap about this whole thing or what? This kid is risking his life over there and I am angry at him... I am horrible aren't I?
