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Only On Day One

This is a repost from another forum that I belong to, but I wanted to share it here because I thought it was so awesome. This is for all of you who have not yet set a quit date, or for those who have and it hasn't arrived yet. Here's to your day one!

"A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step."
-- Confucius

Barb
day 127
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Repost, Author Unknown
ONLY ON DAY ONE

So many times people say that they're on day one and it's an understated, quiet, anti-climatic humble statement. They seem almost apologetic to the crowd. They are only on day one, how insignificant.

Well, let me tell you something ... Day one is the most important day of the entire quit! Without Day One, there is no quit!

It's absolutely the MOST important day! And it should be shouted from the rooftops! It should be heralded with trumpets blaring! Day One is cause for greater celebration than Day 100!

Oh, Day 100 is wonderful. Success is stamped all over Day 100, but without Day One, there is no Day 100. Without Day One there is nothing.

So here is to Day One and all those who were brave enough to enter it and embrace it and allow it to be their reality. Congratulations to you for being willing to enter Hell Week!

I see Hell Week as a challenging, long, suffering, miserable week and here these people are ... Ready - Willing - And Able to walk up to it and say "I'm here!"

Without that, you have no quit. Without that willingness to walk up to Hell Week and offer yourself like some sacrificial lamb on a rock slab, you have nothing. You are the bravest of any day, on Day One! You are the most challenged on Day One. That is the hardest day of the entire quit. Because that is the day that you took your whole world and did the impossible. You turned it around 180 degrees! You turned night into day. You made the sun into the moon. You took everything that seemed normal and right and tossed it into the wind and said "give me abnormal and wrong!"

Ever since Day One, I have been inviting abnormal and wrong into my life. And I have never felt so alive in all of my days on this earth.

If I could do it all over again, I would jump into Day One screaming and cheering with banners and ribbons flowing from my arms. And I would wear a big hat that proudly stated "DAY ONE" on it! Because something happened that I never bargained for. Facing the fear and allowing Day One to enter my life was the first of many more wonderful challenges. And it was as if somebody handed me a key (a master key!) and said "Here, this opens more doors, discover yourself!"

Welcome to Hell. It is the most wonderful place! Because past this lies Freedom. I'd walk this walk 100 more times if I had to. It's that beautiful.
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16 Replies

GREAT POST!!

Thanks

Gotta Have One!!

Day One!!!
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edith2
Member

I loved what you wrote! It has been my experience that all the hard times I've gone through have made me stronger, more grateful, more hopeful and more rewarding. Quitting smoking was one of the hardest things I went through. But so temporary and so rewarding.
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Bonniejean
Member

Edith, Thanks for the encouragement AGAIN!. I feel really bad about "turning back". Today could be my 7th day and not my 1st. But I know I have to keep trying. The path ahead is beautiful, serene and bright. When I turned back to smoking, all I saw was fallen trees and huge jagged rocks, No, I don't ever want to go back there. I'll stay on the right path this time. NO TURNING BACK!
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carlie
Member

Barb - Fantastic post....thanks for sharing it with us here !! I hope all of us who read this REMEMBER to congratulate every person coming in with a courageous, magnificent Day 1 ....

For some reason I started congratulating the newcomers last week...seemed like the right thing to do !!! I guess it is !!! LOL
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jennie3
Member

Thank you for shairing this it is a cool post and so true!
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jennie3
Member

Thank you for shairing this it is a cool post and so true!
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kim51
Member

That is an awesome post!! Thanks so much for sharing it here!
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polly2
Member

WOW, what an awesome post!! I hope this one sticks around for a good long time, because people who are just starting will definitely benefit from this!! Thank you so much for sharing this -- grinning here!!
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Bonniejean
Member

WOW! Thank you for sharing this, I have been reading everyone's comments this morning when I stumbled onto this - ONLY ON DAY ONE- Today will be my 2nd 'DAY ONE". I Had my 1st day one last Monday - then started back on Wednesday evening. So here goes, I'm going to try it again. I think if I can get my mind off cigs and onto other things, I'll be able to do it this time.
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