For some reason, the smell of smoke just does something to me now. What it does is just not good. Infact, it pisses me off. I explained that to my husband 3 days ago however he disregarded my feelings and continued to smoke around me. Well, today I really let him have it. I went KABOOM! I told him I no longer want him to smoke around me. I told him that I can understand him smoking in the bathroom but all other areas of the house are off limits.
Of course he didn't like it that things are starting to change and we commenced to arguing. He went outside for a bit and I guess did some thinking and we talked when he came back in. He said "I guess that means you are really through with smoking". He agreed that he could restrict his smoking to the bathroom.
So, that is that! I guess it had to be done. We all are afraid of change and resist it, its just human nature. The world is always changing around us and we can grow and change with it or rage against the storm which gets you nowhere.
Have a beautiful smoke free day (((HUGS)))