Mother Goose,
It's so nice to see someone around here who can state their opinion without being offensive and/or critical of others. I personally am using an NRT. Before, I always thought that NRT's defeated the purpose of quitting. The last time I quit, the chemical withdrawals were VERY BAD. I have bipolar disorder, which is a chemical imbalance in the brain. The chemical adjustments took over a month to level out again before I was anything close to sane again. That is why I chose to go the NRT route this time. I have quit many times using the cold turkey methos for extended periods of time, 2 years once. I too believed I would never ever smoke again, but I did. My advantage in this discussion is that I have both experiences quitting. I can tell you from my own personal experience that with the exception of easing down the levels of nicotine in my body so that I don't end up in the nutty ward, quitting using an NRT has been no different for me than it ever was using the cold turkey method. Now to be honest though, I have not yet gone completely off of the patch yet so it remains to be seen how it will be when I do. But I can say without a doubt that everytime I go down on the dose, I do not crave cigarettes. I believe that is because, in my case, smoking has been primarily a mental addiction for me. I have still had to fight the urge to light up and replace it with other habits just like everyone else. After reading posts around here, my process of quitting has not been any different than those who are quitting cold turkey.