Im trying to pay attention to what the people on ex with a good chunk of smoke free time do. I feel like their joy is a buy product of giving it away e.g. honestly sharing with others what they have experienced on their recovery journey. For instance giulia reached out to me while I was gone and was HERE AND ACTIVE DAILY on ex when I came back. When I first joined pir8fan messaged me to welcome me to the site. I believe that if I use this site actively daily and reach out to the newcomer like I was reached out to, while trying to let go of my fears and be a better person, I can maintain being smoke free.