Having fessed up to my failure and the response of unconditional support is tremendous.
I never got much unconditional support when it came to my abilities at home. I ended up in the psychiatrists' chairs most of my adult life even when I wasn't a smoker.
I come from a completely success oriented family.
The only person who has loved me unconditionally is my husband.......otherwise I'd probably be so sick that I wouldn't still be around....and I'm not kidding.
When I haven't succeeded, my immediate family has avoided me like the plague.
My story is just beginning to unravel here.......my family treats me like an outcast and I guess smoking is tied to that...............it kees me there....does anyone understand???