cancel
Showing results for 
Show  only  | Search instead for 
Did you mean: 

Share your quitting journey

Will You Be A Willing Quitter Or A Fighting Quitter?

JonesCarpeDiem
0 10 21

A willing quitter stands back and looks objectively at what they are up against and their objective.

A willing quitter accepts that there will be some discomfort before they reach their goal.

A willing quitter learns to turn the thought of smoking away and understands there is no enemy just acceptance.

 

A fighting quitter never lets go of smoking.

A fighting quitter white knuckles their quit.

A fighting quitter eventually gets tired of fighting.

10 Comments
Barbara145
Member

You are so right.  11 years ago, I hired a physician to help me quit.  I did patches and saw him in the office weekly.  I could call him when I was freaking out which was pretty much daily.  After 3 months, decreasing patches, off nicotine, I guess I just couldnt fight any longer.  There was a foot of snow outside.  I chipped away the ice and snow off my car and drove to the store and bought a CARTON. Because of you and this site I am a willing quitter this time and I am out of NML today.  God bless you Dale, for all the good you do.  I will never forget you and your generosity.

smorgy8513
Member

I'm willing.........and now feel able!!

Sharon

msgardengirl320

I love this post! I find that one day I am a "willing quitter" & the next I am a "fighting quitter". As the days go by, I am working on being a "willing quitter" more consitently. I will come to this post when I feel my position slip. Thanks Dale

Susie49
Member

Great read!!! I am a willing quitter  most of the time but every now and then my thoughts wander, thank heaven I can fight them... 327 days smoke free...Getting close the the BIG ONE year mark....I Can Not be happier  Susie

LouiseR
Member

I am a willing quitter that is why this is my forever quit.  Being a fighting quitter always lead me back to smoking.  Once again Dale, great blog.

SkyGirl
Member

I love this, Dale!

xxxooo,   Sky

helenb208
Member

always great to read your posts, they keep me up and postive, I will never be a smoker again, feeling stronger everyday. Thanks Dale for all the help, Helen. 

luxie
Member

I AM A WILLING QUITTER...

Michwoman
Member

So very true!!

Strudel
Member

So, so true! I decided from the get go - because of the wise words here - to not use will power and fight things! Willing is the way to go! 

About the Author
Hello, My name is Dale. I was quit 18 months before joining this site and had participated on another site during that time. I learned a lot there and brought it with me. I joined this site the first week of August 2008. I didn't pressure myself to quit. HOW I QUIT I didn't count, I didn't deny myself to get started. When I considered quitting (at a friends request to influence his brother to quit), I simply told myself to wait a little longer. No denial, nothing painful. After 4 weeks I was down to 5 cigarettes from a pack a day. The strength came from proving to myself, I didn't need to smoke because I normally would have smoked. Simple yes? I bought the patch. I forgot to put one on on the 4th day. I needed it the next day but the following week I forgot two days in a row I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself that I would slap it on and wait an hour rather than smoke. It rode in my wallet my first year.There's nothing keeping any of you from doing this. It doesn't cost a dime. This is about unlearning something you've done for a long time. The nicotine isn't the hard part. Disconnecting from the psychological pull, the memories and connected emotions is. :-) Time is the healer.