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We get a lot of new quitters on the 1st of the year.

JonesCarpeDiem
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Perhaps it has something to do with new years resolutions?

          How many new years resolutions have you made and kept in your past?  I don't even bother making them myself. Life has enough unexpected twists & turns, I can barely keep up. 

For you new quitters.

          Nearly everyone who attempts quitting smoking believes they have to want to quit to be successful.

          Being 1 day short of 16 years smoke free, I can tell you, this is not the case.

Wanting to quit wears off quickly.

The best thing you could do is make a plan before you quit

This should include changing your smoking routine so your mind has a clue what's coming.

 

4 weeks before I quit I began saying "I'm going to wait a little longer," every time I wanted to smoke.  That took me from a pack a day to 5 a day.

I had no stress, I never counted or denied myself a smoke. I had no anxiety because I set no date.

5 days before I quit, I bought my last pack and I knew it.

I decided to quit on the second of January specifically so it was not construed in any way as a new years resolution.

I saved one cigarette for the morning of my quit because I didn't want to wake up anxious or doubtful about what I was doing. I smoked it at 7:15am and went and bought some patches.

Once I quit, I told myself "I don't do that anymore" every time I thought of smoking and by doing so, I rewired neural pathways which set me up for success.

Yes, I had some hard days but I didn't blame them or connect them to quitting smoking.

I used 11 patches. When I forgot to put on a patch 2 days in a row, I put one in my wallet with a promise to use it rather than smoke. 

The only way out is through. 

Don't blame negative things on quitting.

Time is the healer.

Happy New Year

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Hello, My name is Dale. I was quit 18 months before joining this site and had participated on another site during that time. I learned a lot there and brought it with me. I joined this site the first week of August 2008. I didn't pressure myself to quit. HOW I QUIT I didn't count, I didn't deny myself to get started. When I considered quitting (at a friends request to influence his brother to quit), I simply told myself to wait a little longer. No denial, nothing painful. After 4 weeks I was down to 5 cigarettes from a pack a day. The strength came from proving to myself, I didn't need to smoke because I normally would have smoked. Simple yes? I bought the patch. I forgot to put one on on the 4th day. I needed it the next day but the following week I forgot two days in a row I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself that I would slap it on and wait an hour rather than smoke. It rode in my wallet my first year.There's nothing keeping any of you from doing this. It doesn't cost a dime. This is about unlearning something you've done for a long time. The nicotine isn't the hard part. Disconnecting from the psychological pull, the memories and connected emotions is. :-) Time is the healer.