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There's never going to be a good time to quit!

MarilynH
Member
5 9 290

I smoked for 40 yrs and never thought of getting any health issues that was smoking related even when my husband found out he had mild emphysema which scared him into quitting, he'll have 3 yrs on April 25th. I continued to smoke outside of course but we hadn't smoked in the house for over a decade anyway but in June of 2014 I found out that I have mild copd through a breathing test which scared me into quitting smoking so I found this site and read everything I could find on quitting smoking and Remaining Quit, I learned a wealth of information which strengthened my resolve to take back my life from the clutches of the dreaded nicotine poison, I never thought in a million years that I could quit smoking but on July 14th I'll be celebrating 3 glorious smoke free years of Freedom. Like most people I went through the roller coaster of ups and downs of withdrawals and mood swings, I could be laughing one second and blatting like a baby the next, nobody including my grown children wanted to be around me and didn't think I would quit anyway but the grandchildren were A OK to be around me they were my bright spot and still are, I made it through those rough patches because I finally wised up and realized that there was never going to be a good time to quit smoking that there was always going to be an excuse to quit on another day but another day won't come unless you decide now is the time so prepare for your quit and bite the bullet, pick a quit date and join the ranks of being an Exer then once you start reaping the benefits of being FREE, that's when we all need to be Vigilant and protect the best gift that any of us will ever give ourselves which is the gift of LIFE!!!!!!  there's definitely life after cigarettes and it's super fantastic to be able to go anywhere, anytime, whenever, wherever and however without wondering where to sneak off to suck on a disgusting cancer stick.

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sophia-22
Member

and not smell like a disgusting filthy ashtray while always on edge because as a smoker you pretty much are always withdrawing from nicotine.

Mandolinrain
Member

Im so glad your here and you quit when you did Marilyn, you have so much wonderful advice to help all of us here. Bless you my friend:)

YoungAtHeart
Member

I am so glad you gave this gift to yourself, and that you are sharing it with us!

                             

dwwms
Member

Seems a lot of us never think that smoking is gonna catch up with us - my wife quit 10+ years ago because of high blood pressure and kidney issues. I told myself (or the little monster told me) she needed to but I was okay - no health problems here! Alas, I too was told I have mild emphysema and it still took me 2 years to decide I needed to quit!

I am glad that I don't need to sneak off anymore to have a smoke - and even when I did, I'm not sure I got far enough away from others and most definitely they could smell it when I returned. I know your grandkids are glad you don't smoke - mine hound me (or that is they hounded me!)

Hope you celebrated your milestone yesterday (now at 1,001!!) - gearing up for the celebration in July!

Daniela2016
Member

And you are correct; if we were letting our addicted minds decided of the best time to quit there would never be such a thing: the same addicted mind can come up with a million reasons as to why it is still not a good time.  We have to take our destiny in our 2 hands, decide of a day, or spontaneously quit.  And stay with our choice through thin and thick, knowing there is a light a the end of the tunnel, but also that our health starts improving the very day we quit! Thank you Marilyn for the reminder we are the makers of our destiny, and quitting an unhealthy, potentially deadly addiction is all in the power or our minds, it is feasible, it isn't even as hard as we thought it could be!

Newbies please read and learn, and most importantly, please do it, and we'll be here to help should you need us!

elvan
Member

MarilynH‌ and there is never going to be a bad time to quit.  We all had lots of excuses that we called reasons for why it was bad timing...just exactly what did smoking do FOR us?  So glad you made that decision 1,001 days ago.

Love,

Ellen

Christine13
Member

Thank you Marilyn for always telling me the truth about this addiction.  I have questioned myself if it is a good time to

keep a quit, and I know it is...........thank you my friend.  It's always a good time to quit............and believe it to our very core!!

xo

MarilynH
Member

Huge cyber hug from me to you Christine13 ,you can get through one precious smoke free day at a time dear friend, stay close and keep stacking up those precious smoke free days my friend and fellow Exer. ♡

Strudel
Member

Hi there Marilyn! Happy day 1,001!! 

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I'm a proud Gram of 2 grandsons and a granddaughter and I consider myself a jack of all trades and a master of none, plus I enjoy reading and being outside and since quitting smoking breathing is so much easier because I'm not coughing half of my time sucking on a cancer stick....