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Mom passed on last night

Pops
Member
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Good morning EXErs

My brother called me last night and told me Mom passed away at 9:00 last night. She’s finished with having bad days. She turned ninety last December, so that a full life. 
I will be checking in later. Enjoy your smoke free Saturday 

Pops w/178 DOF

31 Comments
MarilynH
Member

I'm so sorry for your loss Ken, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family I'm also sending you a huge hug.....

meWisconsin
Member

Sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. My prayers are with you and your family Ken.

Terry

Jennifer-Quit
Member

So sorry for your loss Ken.

RachelMB
Member

So sorry to hear Pops!  Sending prayers and hugs your way! xoxoxo

Rachel

SimplySheri
Member

So sorry for your loss, Ken.  Losing a parent is never easy, no matter how old. Take good care of yourself as you move through the next few weeks!!  And please know you're in our thoughts and prayers

Pops
Member

Tyvm

YoungAtHeart
Member

Never an easy time.  She will live on forever in your heart.

My sympathy on your loss.

Nancy

JonesCarpeDiem

I'm sorry for your loss Ken.

Please don't smoke.

Come here instead. 

Barbara145
Member

Thinking of you Pops.  My deepest sympathy for the loss of your Mom. Give yourself room to grieve.

sweetplt
Member

Ocean and Footprints Sympathy CardThoughts and prayers out to you and your family on your loss...God bless you Pops...~ Colleen 446 DOF 

Thomas3.20.2010

My Sincerest condolences, Ken! May the Lord comfort you with your loss!

Roj
Member

Big cyber hug...it’s so hard when mom goes, no matter how old...sounds like she had a long beautiful life at 90...hold onto your sweet memories.

NewMe
Member

Losing a parent is one of the hardest things in life, no matter how old you are. Sending you my sincere condolences. I'm glad she got to live to be 90, that's amazing. Cherish your memories. She will always be with you.

Cousin-Itt
Member

Sorry for you loss Pops.   Saying prayers for your mother and your family

Turnips
Member

Sending my condolences and warm thoughts to you and your family. Take care of yourself through all of this.

Barbscloud
Member

My condolences.

Barb

elvan
Member

Ken,

I am so sorry for your loss, 90 is certainly a full life & l am sure that you & your brother brought her great joy, love, & laughter. DO take care of yourself & know that you, your brother, & your mother are in many prayers. May she rest in peace.

Love, 

Ellen

Christine13
Member

I'm so very sorry for your loss Ken.  You and your family will be in my prayers.

Michwoman
Member

My sincere sympathies Ken

Bellegonia
Member

It doesn't matter how old you are, she was your MOM. It's a club no one ever wants to belong to... but have to at some point. Hugs for all the memories. I am glad she is pain free now.

Belle

Giulia
Member

 Losing a mom is rough.  And the pain of that lingers.  But how lucky she was around for that many years.  Sending a hug.

Ladybug--7-3-12

Condolences on the loss of your Mom.  No matter how old they were & no matter how old we are at the time, it's a loss of their physical presence in our life (which has been a good thing for most of us) which may take us by surprise.  This I found to be especially true if its the last parent (even making you feel like an orphan).    Keep making her proud by keeping your quit.    

maryfreecig
Member

Thanks for sharing about your Mom's passing. Yes her work is done, but not her legacy. Thankfully sobriety and smobriety  can handle sadness one day at a time. 

indingrl
Member

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Sootie
Member

A good long life .............but still, there is no grief like losing a parent. My heart goes out to you Ken---and you will be in my prayers. 

May your memories bring you comfort and your faith bring you peace.

Strudel
Member

I am so sorry for your loss Pops - sending prayers....

KellanC74
Member

I'm so sorry for your loss. 

alissastump
Member

Prayers to you and your family.

minihorses
Member

I'm sorry for your loss and am praying for your family.

Pops
Member

To "ALL" of my EXer family....

Thanks so very very much for all of your kind words....My mother and I were not really close, but she is my mother, and there is always going to be that emptiness there...I lost my father about 15 years ago, and now it is just my brother and I is all that is left.  We found out late last year that our sister passed on as well.  At 68, I'm finding that most all of my friends and family are passing on.  I have purchased a black suit that is hanging in my closet and I don't suspect that I will ever wear it except for my own funeral...lol.  Now I just have to stay away from the doughnuts so that it will still fit me when my time comes...????

I used to think that when it was my time, that nobody would be around or really care.  Now that I am in a couple of brother & sisterhoods of recovery...I'm thinking that there just might be a few friends that actually care and might want to have a last minute party in my wake...You can play whatever type of music you want, and eat and drink whatever makes you happy.  I won't be there to see it anyway....but perhaps I can still be there in spirit...

Damn, these are somber moments for sure.  I got out yesterday and put my knees in the breeze for a couple of hours and blew away alot of the stress I have been carrying....Now I just have to get through this week...with the surgery, and the ever closing work deadlines.  I told my upper management this morning, that work was going to have to take a back seat this week.  I have other things on my mind to deal with right now.....

Have a great day today....speaking of today....Pops has 180 DOF, or six months if you will....Woo Hoo!!!!!

Thanks again to all of you....

MarilynH
Member

I find the older I get the more wakes and funerals I'm attending ugh! Congratulations again on your precious quit journey I found this pin yesterday and it touched me so I saved it.....

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About the Author
Hi, and thanks for stopping by to read my page....My name is Ken Bishop...aka, Pops. I am a stubborn older addict of nicotine....I have quit on numerous occasions in the past, and have experienced great rewards as a direct result of not ingesting deadly toxins into my bloodstream. One of the curses of having a strong constitution that seems to be able to withstand much more than others can...is this...my body would still be able to move around, and get things accomplished even after I was poisoned by the harmful effects of nicotine addiction. Eventually, the harm became so significant, that not even I, with all of my denial...could avoid the truth that to continue to smoke, would most assuredly be the death of me, and in short order as well. On Sept 1st, of 2018...I found myself in a rehab facility for alcohol abuse, and came very near death. I quit messing around, and had a deep and moving spiritual encounter, and have remained sober without one single urge to pick up a drink since. That was after consuming copious amounts of booze for many years in the past. After a short while.. I asked for spiritual help from my creator to make it possible for me to get the same amount of conviction towards finally being able to successfully put down nicotine once and for all...As of....(September 14th, 2019)...I have 17 days of living smokefree! Woo Hoo!!! Friends and family are all very proud and happy for me. They have asked me what I thought was the turning point, after having experienced so many failed attempts before. I simply reply, "I took the God Shot". xoxoxo Pops update: in Dec of 19 when the stock market started going nuts...I used that as an excuse to start smoking again. I see-sawed back and forth for severa months, and when the COVID crisis hit, I simply lost all desire to be smokefree...I was going to smoke & that was final. Well, as always...the pains of excessive injestion of nicotine into my blood stream...(one puff is all it takes) started affecting my everyday life again...I knew I had to quit placating my inner child and grow up and accept a life without nicotine. The normal person would read this and say well duh...finally he's getting it. But the normally addicted nicotine addict would understand...weird huh? So now I'm back with a new quit date of July 8th, 2020 & am hoping that I can accept that as a perfect quit date that does not need to be changed. Thanks for reading and good luck to you in your quit journey. Pops w 4 DOF!