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It's a common belief that you have to "want to quit" smoking for it to be successful

JonesCarpeDiem
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Many will put off quitting smoking thinking someday, they will "want to" quit enough to actually make one stick. (It's actually a misinformed excuse to keep smoking.)

I'm here to tell you, You do not have to "want to quit" to quit smoking.

The simple truth is you have to decide to quit and be willing to quit.

If you do that, everything else will fall into place.

brought to you by the "Keep It Simple Stupid" foundation for tobacco cessation

12 Comments
Giulia
Member

Yes.  True.

freesoul2
Member

Agreed

OldBones-Larry

So true my friend. I know that I didn't really want to quit, but decided I had to for my health.

SkyGirl
Member

Amen, Dale. 

I think just about everyone harbors a secret fear that they can't be successful at quitting because they looooooove to smoke. 

In reality, that "love" was really just the addiction "thanking" us every time we lit up to replenish the dwindling amount of nicotine in our bodies. That made us think that we didn't really WANT to quit. 

Think of it this way:  In your heart, you do want to quit, but your addicted body (including, and especially, your brain) does not.  When you quit smoking your addicted body will pull every trick in the book to convince you to feed it some nicotine.  That is the withdrawal part of quitting.  You will survive that.  It won't be pleasant.  But you don't give your body everything it wants, right?  (I am thinking of hot fudge sundaes, loaded baked potatoes and long, lazy naps, but I guess those aren't really addictions, are they?)

In short, Dale said it:  You don't have to WANT to quit in order to be successful.  You just have to decide to quit, commit to that decision and honor that commitment each day.

xxxooo,  Sky

cheyenne7
Member

I believe this .... as a serial quitter, I have enough experience to say that this is true...

freeneasy
Member

True-Ididn't want to quit-but I want to stay quit

lindan_7-14-10

I quit, kicking and screaming. Dale had me change my mindset, and the rest is history. Thanks for caring, (((jonesie)))♥

Deena-A-Yenni
Member

Like.

promise_judy
Member

🙂

XOXO

pir8fan
Member

Anyone who remembers my early days here (or who has gone back to my early blogs) knows that I did not want to quit! I came here kicking and screaming on day 8! There was not a single one of my first 40 days that I wanted to quit! But I was determined that I would! Now 1670 Days into my quit I think I am off to a damn good start! And, I am just as determined as I ever was! You do not have to want to! You just have to do it!

louise-irene
Member

I am going thru that right now.  My final quit date is set for August 18, 2014, and I am supposed to be (according to home health nurse and doctor) cutting out one stick a day every 5 days, but got stuck and lost motivation.  If what you are saying is true, I will never be "motivated" and just need to force myself to do the right thing. And like in another comment, kicking and screaming the whole time.  Unitl it gets better.

JonesCarpeDiem

Can you just accept that you are quitting smoking without the kicking and screaming?

About the Author
Hello, My name is Dale. I was quit 18 months before joining this site and had participated on another site during that time. I learned a lot there and brought it with me. I joined this site the first week of August 2008. I didn't pressure myself to quit. HOW I QUIT I didn't count, I didn't deny myself to get started. When I considered quitting (at a friends request to influence his brother to quit), I simply told myself to wait a little longer. No denial, nothing painful. After 4 weeks I was down to 5 cigarettes from a pack a day. The strength came from proving to myself, I didn't need to smoke because I normally would have smoked. Simple yes? I bought the patch. I forgot to put one on on the 4th day. I needed it the next day but the following week I forgot two days in a row I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself that I would slap it on and wait an hour rather than smoke. It rode in my wallet my first year.There's nothing keeping any of you from doing this. It doesn't cost a dime. This is about unlearning something you've done for a long time. The nicotine isn't the hard part. Disconnecting from the psychological pull, the memories and connected emotions is. :-) Time is the healer.