My name is Roy and I am 42 years old. I started smoking at the age of 9. I can remember it as if it was yesterday. I caught my cousin smoking and was in shock and declared to tell - she being a couple of years older and bigger put me up against the wall and stuck a cigarette in my mouth and said if you tell on me I will tell on you. Some people might think that she was horrible and down right mean - but I don't. Today I know she was young too and scared and this was the first thought she had - And as she did this - because I was so young and looked up to her - puffed on that ciggarette and felt so cool because I was now smoking with my favorite cousin. That's how it all started.
When I started smoking ciggarettes were .75 cents a pack - some places when you were able to find them were .50 cents. Today I pay almost $9.00 for a pack of ciggarettes and smoke anywhere from a pack to a pack and 1/2 a day. If I had all that money that went up in smoke today I could be pretty wealthy - at the least I could be pretty healthy and free from the unsociable feelings I get from being a smoker in today's society.
Because I have done this for so long I am so afraid that this is going to be the most difficult thing I have ever done. Actually I know it will be. I want to stop so badly.
I have many friends that smoke and some family members that smoke too. I am scared on how I will be able to get along with that. I also have a partner who does not smoke at all which is great. I beleive I can have a great support system but again I am very afraid to fail because of how badly I want to do this. My mom is only in her 70's yet looks like she is in her 90's lugging along the inhaler between cigarettes. I do not want to be my mom. I enjoy life and want to be around a long time.
I am hoping to make some friends here. Those that are trying to quit and those that have. I know I can use all the help I can get and this seems like a great place to start.
I set a 6 month quit date because I feel I need at least that much time to practice these techniques with the hopes that they will only help make my success rate that much stronger. I figure I have been smoking for 33 years - and 6 months of training and practicing is a short amount of time to battle a 33 year addiction.
Tomorrow morning I am going to start with my first Trigger which is when i first wake up - I usually grab a cigarette before my foot even hits the floor. I will see If I can go without the cig until after I shower and leave for work. I will also start journaling my daily smoking so i can recognize what other triggers I have throughout the day so I can work on those too.
I'll be in touch. I look forward to hearing from any of you that could offer me any advice or even comment on how you think my first approach to this is.
Thanks!
xoxo
Roy