I don't know what to say, except it didn't go exactly as planned......Talked on the way there about work, I know that is not much fun for the other person to hear.....we get to the court, and within one swing of the racquet, I hear....."we might as well go back to nicotine with work being such that you can't keep your studies".....
I was stunned.....I was equally stunned by the way it made me instantly feel.....I would have thought that would be the perfect out......green light flashing, right?
I really was speechless at first, it truly shocked me.....then I said, "what does one have to do with the other, why would I say, well if I can't have that.....I should die from smoking?".....
He explained his words, we had some words.....ugh....now I went from being proud of protecting my quit to feeling uncertain about its future : (( Truly a man/woman from different planets scenario....lol....just couldn't see what each other was seeing, or trying to say......sometimes you just have to except these moments......we be fine-----we always are.....
The quit has to be fine too-----I don't want to get into all of that struggling like I had with my last long quit-----I need to avoid that....
He said he feels better about his quit today than yesterday.....so I'm confused and realizing that my quit stepped into the danger zone, and I will fight tooth and nail to bring it back on track......
Not buying, no way.....but my quit doesn't feel its best right now.....I guess this is ok??