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I had to count my DOF's today, but not because of why you think

Bellegonia
Member
4 7 102

Yes, I had to look at a calendar and count my days of freedom (DOF) today. It's only been August 27th - September 28 but I had to do the count. Why? Because I sooooooooooooooooooo wanted a cancer stick for just a flash.

N.O.P.E  Screw you, not gonna get me, have me, go *f* yourself. Count...

All good. Phew.

It came as quick as it went.

I know it's different for everyone but it's really not... we are all addicts. My desire for a smoke isn't any less a desire than yours. I acknowledge I'll be doing this for years to come if that's what it takes, I'm OK with it:

Rob me of my breath

Rob me of my life

Make me smell

Take away my muscle tone

Wrinkle my mouth

Dry out my hair and nails

Stink up my car

Rob me of kisses and hugs

Make me suicidal

N.O.P.E

I'll take what I can get now that the veil is lifted.

Thank you, God, for allowing me to see what my blessings truly are.

Cigarette, Go *F* Yourself.

7 Comments
tyler59
Member

Nice Post...Loved it...Keep Strong yo got this 

JonesCarpeDiem

On my third day I learned to laugh when those thoughts came. I guess it was the "habit vs me."  Because I saw it clearly, it made me laugh.

In a week, I was thinking about laughing instead of smoking.

It retrained my thinking in a good way.

MarilynH
Member

YAY you, you've got this quit firmly in your grasp and YAY for Smokefree living and yay for each and every Day WON.....

YoungAtHeart
Member

Only a MONTH?

You seem so much wiser and in control than that time would indicate!

Congratulations - you used a tool and it got you through. 

It's EXACTLY what you needed to do.

Proud of you!

Nancy

JACKIE1-25-15
Member

As we get closer to milestones the addiction tries to pull us back.  That is why it is very important to be vigilant and learn to protect your quit.  You can protect it with NOPE, not one puff No Matter What SINAO, Smoking is not a option anymore.  Do something else, take smoking out of the equation and NEF  never ever forget where you started and the pain of withdrawal.  Relearn and change your lifestyle.  Changing the mind that you do not have to have smoke is the key.  Education on the addiction to nicotine will help set you free. 

indingrl
Member

CONGRATS AND GOOD JOB!

tyler59
Member

Thank you...

About the Author
I live in beautiful upstate NY. In the country. We have a huge 2 acre perrenial garden. I work in the healthcare field, specifically organ donation. I know an aweful lot about what causes death and how one comes to the end of their life - often unexpectedly. I believe in miracles and that there is good in the world. I see it every day. I've been addicted to cigarettes for over 45 years and I want to prove to myself that I can beat this addiction. I want to breathe again, I don't want to wheeze when I go to bed and I want to be able to excersize again. I miss the feeling of vitality and energy!