My husband and I were supposed to quit on January 1. I think he’s quitting because I want him to quit; even though deep down he knows he should quit. When January 1st rolled around, we had a death in the family and we caved immediately. I also felt like my husband was not prepared, but looking back, I know that both of those things were just excuses because I wanted to keep smoking. I’m trying not to dwell on the fail and I’m trying to see it as a lesson. Our new quit date is January 7. I don’t think my husband is really any more prepared, but I’m going to commit to the quit with or without him! Without him, I think it will be a lot harder and that is scary!