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JACKIE1-25-15
Member
6 11 16

Some of us come to this site new on our freedom from nicotine journey.   Upon arrival we are called “newbies”.   We come with fears, anxiety, depression, addiction,  along with life crisis.   We introduce ourselves not sure of how we will be received but we are suprisingly welcomed.   Greetings come along with instructions from an “elder”.  Another elder points the direction to the path.  While another takes your hand to help you step up on the path.   As you are wandering along you see others just like yourself.  You become friends, quit buddies, BF’s encouraging each other.  You learn, laugh, love, cry, play, dance, eat, talk, walk, scream TOGETHER.  Always pulling each other along the way so that no one is left behind.   Some are just a few steps ahead but always close making sure each are okay.  The elders are still encouraging but they are not as close because you and your buddies are finding the way.   Besides the elders have to meet greet and instruct other newbies at the beginning of the path.  

Sometimes the journey is difficult.  There are some serious bumps in the road.  There are so many things that we have to learn or relearn so we don’t fall down and never give up on the journey.   The further we travel the more we grow and are able to help someone else along the way.  If it gets dark you may be the one with the spare light.  There is always someone on the road.   So you don’t have to be alone.  There is always someone to talk to, all you have to do is BLOG, or message.   Someone will respond.   If you need any help to stay on the  course all you have to do is ask.   Be mindful If you see that someone has fallen.not to step on them so they can get back up.   

We reach milestones one after the other and we are so  happy to achieve BUT we must continue to pass the torch back so there is light in the middle of the road.   As Summer Rain says….The journey continues. 

 

 ....make a friend today. 

11 Comments
MarilynH
Member

EXcellent blog Jackie for an EXceptional lady, thanks for sharing .

Dotgirl_1-28-16
Great message Jackie.
ShawnP
Member

Thanks for your wisdom Jackie! 

Kimshine
Member

Isn't it great that this is how the community works! What a nice blog, Jackie and thanks for being here to offer a hand up!

sewright
Member

Thanks for the encouraging blog. A stumble in the road shouldn't be the end of the journey. Just keep moving forward. Don't quit on quitting. 

joyeuxencore
Member

Lovely post Jackie!!! xo

joedice711
Member

as always your right on track jackie..bravoooo...

TerrieQuit
Member

Wow Jackie! Fantastic post.  Very well thought out! Becoming an Elder is bringing you out more and more every day! We all need each other in some way, shape or form! Don't Quit on your Quit!

I Won't Quit on my Quit!

bonniebee
Member

Another really great blog Jackie !!! I really liked what you said about a fallen person....not to step on them so they can get back up ! I think once we have "made it ", it is easy to fall into the trap of being to judgemental . We must always remember the early days of our quit and for me and many others the times we fell and relapsed.

Stay Strong and carry on .................

elvan
Member

Wonderful, Jackie!

PennyLynn7407
Member

Great blog! You continue to be an instrument of God in my quit journey! Love ya!

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Lay aside every weight that may be slowing you down. Make up your mind not to allow doubt cause you to stumble. You can do this! Do not allow fear , False Expectations Appearing Real to hold you down. You can do this! Break the chains of addiction, forgive yourself for ever smoking. move forward and start loving yourself more each day by staying smokefree. Put aside worry, anxiety, depression, any EXcuse that you would use to not get in or stay in the race of freedom. Take one day at a time, one step if necessary. Run the race diligently, steady and sure with endurance. Believe that you can. Keep your eye on the prize. Hang tough, stay close, be mindful, never give in, never give up.