Day 14 Ya'll

[cajunkris]

Hi

I have finally quit again! I was on the wagon (as one would say) again for about two months from six months clean, of a earlier qutting attempt.I didnt join a support group then ,and I am hoping this will give me the extra support I need when I get weak. Stop by and say hi and I look forward to reading useful comments from others who are struggling like me to end this, once and far all. I wont say it is easy, because right now it isnt. However, I am hanging in there. I just remind myself it is just a habit every time I think of one. 

Kris

[JonesCarpeDiem]

Welcome

https://excommunity.becomeanex.org/blogs/jonescarp.aka.dale.Jan_2007-blog/2011/06/26/what-to-expect-...

[JACKIE1-25-15]

Welcome to EX   

You have come to the right place if you are making the decision to commit to quit smoking.  At EX our resolve is to never smoke again.  NOPE “Not one puff ever.”  I suggest that you follow the steps on the web site pages along with reading, writing, studying, researching and blogging if you like.

This is all about you and what you are willing to do to be a nonsmoker.  If you haven’t read it or have not been informed here is a link to Allen Carr’s book, “Easy Way to Quit Smoking”.  It is an easy read suggested by the “elders” (those with 1+ yrs. quit).

http://media.wix.com/ugd/74fa87_2010cc5496521431188f905b7234a829.pdf

Also check out www.whyquit.com.  There is a lot of additional beneficial information to read and study.  Look for Freedom From Nicotine My Journey Home and Nicotine Addiction 101. Both were extremely helpful for me.  Stay close to the site and learn, ask questions. Read the blogs and most of all enjoy your commitment to quit smoking.

If you should need something to do here is a link that will help

https://excommunity.becomeanex.org/blogs/Youngatheart.7.4.12-blog/2013/02/25/100-things-to-do-instea...).

 If you t ake the time to do the work you will have success.

[JACKIE1-25-15]

 

You have come to the right place

[kristen-9-7-15]

Welcome! Definitley read the Allen Carr book!

[TerrieQuit]

Welcome, Kris! The Carr book is a good read and totally  changed the way that I think about smoking! It is worth your time! You have come to the right place to quit smoking! I am glad you are here!

Terrie  170  DOF

[TerrieQuit]

BTW!, Congratulations on 14  DOF!

[YoungAtHeart]

Welcome to our community!

Congratulations on your decision to quit and your two weeks of smobriety!

The most important thing you can do right now is to educate yourself on what nicotine does to your body and mind. To that end, I also highly recommend Allen Carr's “The Easy Way to Stop Smoking” This is an easy and entertaining read, and I think you will be amazed at what you don't know.

As well, read the sections on this site, and read the blogs, responses and pages of folks you think might be helpful. You might visit whyquit.com and quitsmokingonline.com for the good information contained there.

The idea is to change up your routines so the smoking associations are reduced.  Drink your coffee with your OTHER hand. If you always had that first smoke with your coffee, try putting your tennies on right out of bed, going for a quick walk, then taking your shower and THEN your coffee! Rearrange the furniture in the areas you used to smoke so the view is different.

You need to distract yourself through any craves.  You can take a bite out of a lemon (yup - rind and all), put your head in the freezer and take a deep breath of cold air, do a few jumping jacks, go for a brisk walk or march in place, play a computer game.  Don't let that smoking thought rattle around in your brain unchallenged. Sometimes you need to quit a minute or an hour at a time.  You will need to be disciplined in the early days to distract yourself when a crave hits.  Don't let that smoking thought rattle around your head alone.  Get busy! 

The conversation in your head in response to the "I want a cigarette" thought needs to be, "Well, since I have decided not to do that anymore, what shall I do instead for the three minutes this crave will last?"  Then DO it.  You will need to put some effort into this in the early days, but it gets easier and easier to do.

Stay close to us here and ask questions when you have them and for support when you need it. We will be with you every step of the way!

Nancy

[cajunkris]

Thank you for the welcome you guys! 

I will check out the suggested readings forsure. 

Kris