Days 100 through 110: I feel as if I have been ‘caught in a fish net’! This is a reference to what happens when a surfer gets caught on the shore side of a breaking wave. It makes it very difficult to get out to where you can enjoy the surf and it results in lots of excess paddling and being tossed around quite a bit. As far as quitting goes, I feel secure in my quit! Whatever is going on with me, I know a cigarette won’t change anything for the better. My discomfort comes in feeling like a stranger in my own skin! Since my quit, I have become the most ambivalent person on the planet. Most of my adult life, I have been able to weigh out my choices and make decisions with relative ease. Lately, I can’t make a decision about anything!?! Being indecisive is NOT a trait I can endure! I have been sitting on the fence about Vegas versus Jamaica for over a month! I use this example because it is the only decision in my life (other than my quit) that is even remotely connected to this site! It feels like there are a 1000 variables involved! Some of them are very real factors and some are probably being considered because that’s what you do when you are indecisive! You make it as complicated as possible! Apparently, I have found a new means of driving myself crazy. My plan for May is one of four decisions I have promised myself to make a by Sunday! What’s even crazier about most of these decisions is that in five years (make that one year) it won’t matter one little bit what I decide! Nothing life altering is happening here! Yikes, this is a crazy and up ending process and I wish someone could tell me when I might find my ‘new normal’!?!