ChristineQuit2007 On the Group's page there's a navigation bar on the left. It says something like "Send A Message to the Group". That's how I did it. I think you can also use the search box at the top right on the Group page to find a specific member. That's why I changed my user name to Christine89 (as assigned by Become An Ex) to make it easier for people to find me. That's all I really know. Good luck!