Ok..it is my responsibility on what I am throwing out there in terms of mood, innuendo, looks, etc...
NOT smoking is a choice and SMOKING is a choice. Each needs to be respected. I may not agree or like it, but I have to respet the autonomy and choices of another.
This is a hard lesson, to be non-judgemental. The ironic thing is that I am sort of KNOWN for being a very non-judgy and warm person. I guess I have to revsisit this lesson.
Thanks for all of your candid comments 🙂