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What advantage is there to cutting down and counting out how many cigarettes you can have each day before you quit?

JonesCarpeDiem
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I've never figured this out.

I know why people think they are accomplishing something but what about when you hit that wall and can't seem to cut down anymore?

That would really be upsetting to me. That would really be frustrating to me. That would make me think I couldn't quit. That would make me focus on smoking even more when I smoked my allotment for the day and the day was only half over. That would make the focus of my entire day about when and when I could not have a cigarette.

So where's the advantage?

Here's another way to apporach your quit without stressing yourself out.

I spent 4 weeks cutting down but I NEVER COUNTED. I NEVER DENIED MYSELF.

I never put myself under any kind of pressure about how many cigarettes I was having a day.

All I did was say to myself "I'm going to wait a little longer" when I had the urge to smoke.

Do you see the difference here? Here's a softer way to approach getting off auto and preparing to quit.

I went from a pack a day to a pack every 4 days in those 4 weeks and never once counted. NEVER ONCE had a negative thought about quitting. Didn't even set a quit date.

After 4 weeks, I had proven I didn't need to smoke just because the thought popped into my head and gotten myself off smokers autopilot. 

People who pressure themselves by counting put themselves in a bad place before they even quit.

You can do this if you think things through so you aren't overcome by illogical emotions.  🙂

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Hello, My name is Dale. I was quit 18 months before joining this site and had participated on another site during that time. I learned a lot there and brought it with me. I joined this site the first week of August 2008. I didn't pressure myself to quit. HOW I QUIT I didn't count, I didn't deny myself to get started. When I considered quitting (at a friends request to influence his brother to quit), I simply told myself to wait a little longer. No denial, nothing painful. After 4 weeks I was down to 5 cigarettes from a pack a day. The strength came from proving to myself, I didn't need to smoke because I normally would have smoked. Simple yes? I bought the patch. I forgot to put one on on the 4th day. I needed it the next day but the following week I forgot two days in a row I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself that I would slap it on and wait an hour rather than smoke. It rode in my wallet my first year.There's nothing keeping any of you from doing this. It doesn't cost a dime. This is about unlearning something you've done for a long time. The nicotine isn't the hard part. Disconnecting from the psychological pull, the memories and connected emotions is. :-) Time is the healer.