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Breaking the pattern

JonesCarpeDiem
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after the nicotine is gone, quitting smoking is more about breaking the pattern and the thought process that smoking has so engrained into our behavior.

my third day I learned to laugh when I got a crave. it became the smoking replacement. the change from the smoking norm. every time I thought of smoking I laughed.

After a week I was thinking about laughing instead of smoking.

There are so many other things you can do:

The rubber band on the wrist breaks the normal thought process.

Simple reminders that aren't difficult or painful.

Eventually you recognize why you're doing the new behavior and can let it go.

It's a process. Keep them away from your face long enough and you forget about smoking.

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Hello, My name is Dale. I was quit 18 months before joining this site and had participated on another site during that time. I learned a lot there and brought it with me. I joined this site the first week of August 2008. I didn't pressure myself to quit. HOW I QUIT I didn't count, I didn't deny myself to get started. When I considered quitting (at a friends request to influence his brother to quit), I simply told myself to wait a little longer. No denial, nothing painful. After 4 weeks I was down to 5 cigarettes from a pack a day. The strength came from proving to myself, I didn't need to smoke because I normally would have smoked. Simple yes? I bought the patch. I forgot to put one on on the 4th day. I needed it the next day but the following week I forgot two days in a row I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself that I would slap it on and wait an hour rather than smoke. It rode in my wallet my first year.There's nothing keeping any of you from doing this. It doesn't cost a dime. This is about unlearning something you've done for a long time. The nicotine isn't the hard part. Disconnecting from the psychological pull, the memories and connected emotions is. :-) Time is the healer.