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Hi Ex family

constanceclum
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I haven't been on here for a few days, had a bad stomache bug and then my computer was down yesterday. I've been thinking about what an EX friend messaged me, about how I am over thinking and analizing my quit and I think he is right. However, the craves of the first few weeks are horrible for me and I don't look forward to them. My quit date is 5/5. I'm looking forward to it because my breathing and cough are really bad but, at the same time, am not looking forward to the craves. I have done all the readings and am using all the support I can possibly get.

I met an 80 yr. old man in pulmonary rehab that quit smoking 25 yrs. ago. He said he had prayed for 3 yrs. for God to help him quit smoking but then thought that maybe God wasn't going to help him. Then he woke up one day, evening came, and he realized that he hadn't smoked. Woke up the next day and the same thing happened. After 3 days, he knew he was a non-smoker. I have been praying for years too and am hoping God will work for me the same way.

I think a lot of what happens when quitting has to do with timing. When the time is right, and you are truly committed, it will not be as hard. I think to judge others who are doing their best and finding it impossible, is wrong. I don't believe in tough love but, rather, gentle encouragement. Most of you on this site has provided this for me and, for that, I am grateful.

Connie

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I'm 59 with severe COPD. I've decided I really want to live and I won't if I smoke. I have 4 grown boys, a grandson and granddaughter due on 9/10. Lots of reasons to live.